You must understand That He does not love you because you are lovely. God does not love you because you read the Bible, pay your tithes, go to church, or do our best to keep the command to love others as God love you The truth is that God love you without conditions.
“But look here: the Lord’s eyes watch all who honor him, all who wait for his faithful love, to deliver their lives from death and keep them alive during a famine, We put our hope in the Lord. He is our help and our shield.” (Psalm 33:18-20)
God show how much He love you by sending His only Son into the world so that you might have eternal life through Him. This is real love. It is not that you love Him, but that God love you and sent His Son as a sacrifice to take away your sin. Since He love you that much, you surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen Him, But if you love each other, He lives in you, and God love has been brought to full expression through you.
God’s love has never been or ever will be conditional. God love us at our worst, and most church would agree with that initially. We believe we are save by grace through faith, no matter our history, but that is often where grace stops and religion starts. And religion always puts the emphasis on the external.